WRITTEN: July 9th 2011

There is nothing more horrible than people who REFUSE to look at your frustrations as valid and write them off as excuses.
I’m in a rather shitty mood today, a slight funk as well.
I just can’t understand how people can point out YOUR flaws yet stand by and excuse others who are so cruel, rude, arrogant and down right mean to people they see as weaker than themselves. 
I can’t just do that. 
As a woman number one I have EVERY right to voice my opinion on whatever I fucking feel like voicing my opinion on. 
Number two if you feel like shit how is it logical to make ME feel like shit? 
And before people go on and on about “you control your own atmosphere” or “you choose to live how you live” oh shut the hell up because that isn’t always the truth. 
I get grace…
I do…
I have needed it for myself PLENTY of times. Plus I have children and a husband…I’ve also extended grace a few times 😉 But to sit and glaze over the complete bullshit of people hurting other people by throwing the “grace card” around like it’s an excuse to be a dickhead is ridiculous. 
Although I have a Sailor mouth I am one of those people who generally always take the bible literal. That being said I also feel you can do that and STILL take it out of context. Grace should NEVER be an excuse to allow people in what they look to be “spiritual authority” to spiritually ABUSE others. 
I just think sometimes you may not be in the BEST situation for yourself, but there are those FEW times where it’s TRULY not your call. 
So if some bullshit goes on, I WILL say something. 
 Tolerating bully’s, arrogance, rudeness, and anything else you wanna throw in there is just unacceptable. 
Weather it’s ME you’re doing it to, or someone else I can SEE you doing it to. I’m not going to just sit and stand by while someone treats me or anyone else like shit. 
Honestly, if that person who is getting emotionally beat down to weak or insecure to stick up for themselves, then…HELLO, my name is “Opinion.” And I WILL share it with you. 

Good Day,
CHERyL~